10 things mothers do right
[Guide]The multiple genes that determine the baby’s brain development are the result of other genetic and environmental interactions.
Therefore, the shaping of the baby’s surroundings and the proper guidance of the baby in life are very important. Doing these ten things will greatly benefit the baby’s intellectual development!
First, don’t skimp on your baby’s love and safe attachment is the basis for your baby’s future interpersonal relationships.
Only when the baby has experienced all the positive emotions about love when he was a child can he feel safe and able to interact with others on an equal footing.
So, don’t be fooled by your love, get closer to your baby, and let him fully appreciate the intimacy of love in the close contact with his mother.
Second, actively respond to the baby Before the baby can not speak, he can only communicate with you in his own way.
Maybe it’s a sound, an action or facial expression, gaze or escape, but it’s the hint your baby gives you.
Don’t hesitate to respond, you will find that your smile can calm the anxious baby gradually, he will cry enough, and he will be quieter at night.
This is because the baby is quieted by soothing or feeding, at which time his brain’s worry response system is automatically turned off.
But pay attention: you can’t meet all his requirements, you only keep a positive response to the baby’s suggestion, let him know that you understand his requirements.
Third, try to talk to your baby. All the personalities of you and your baby will lay a foundation for your baby’s future learning.
As your baby hears more and more words, the language processing function in the brain develops.
Talk to your baby, read or sing as much as possible, and perhaps read simple picture books to him from the beginning instead of trying to teach him.
As your baby gets heavier, you can encourage him to participate by reading stories-repeating intonation and phrases, and slowly, he can do just like you.
Fourth, help the baby to establish a hierarchy Through frequent praise, the child is inspired by the spirit, and gradually understands the truth and unreasonable from the positive, distinguishes between truth, goodness, beauty, falseness, evil, and ugliness.Good effect.
Combining praise with rewards can make education more effective.
Reward is mainly spiritual reward, but proper material reward is also essential.
Although the amount of material rewards given to children is insignificant in terms of quantity, it is a need, a kind of satisfaction, and can even be transformed into a positive force for children.
Fifth, encourage your baby to explore safely. For your baby, you are his entire world. Most of you determine his attitude towards the world, and your interaction with him basically determines the way he learns.
Therefore, when your baby is trying to explore or play games, you need to be receptive, especially when he is frustrated and needs encouragement from you.
Only then will the baby be afraid of the difficulties and fearless for the future.
6. Selectively accompany the baby to watch TV. Baby learns well, it is related to the mother’s restrictions on the time and content of watching TV.
Never let TV be your baby’s “sister”. Even if you watch TV, your baby has to watch it with you.
You can understand the content of TV in your way, and even discuss it with him. In this way, watching TV can become a learning experience.
7. Use rules as an opportunity to learn Don’t expect your baby to always do what you say. He is usually impulsive and often noisy because he is not capable of controlling his emotions during stress and anger.
It takes time for your baby to learn to control himself.
Never beat or shake your baby vigorously. Studies have shown that this can cause a permanent bad effect on the baby, making him feel scared, humiliated, or angry. This interaction can only teach the baby to resist in the same violent way.
When your baby makes you unhappy, give yourself a little time, count to 10, calm yourself down, or talk to a friend to ease your mood.
When you are overreacting or demanding too much, say sorry to your baby first. This will not only cause loss, but also make your baby more aware and supportive.
Eight, see the uniqueness of the baby Each baby has its own temperament and growth rate, each baby is unique.
Give your baby unique encouragement and you will see that your baby can really do it well.
First, parents who are more sensitive to their baby’s response will help their baby build a positive self-esteem.
Nine, to ensure the quality of baby care Studies have shown that proper baby care and early education can promote your baby’s future learning and social skills, which is absolutely up to you.
If the baby is handed over to the babysitter or relatives and friends, you need to observe how the caregiver interacts with the baby. You should really care about the baby, and at the same time provide the baby with space for development, whether the baby is clean and safe around, and so on.
Ten, taking care of your own baby is the most challenging job, especially when you feel tired, irritable, frustrated, or frustrated, it is more difficult to meet your baby’s requirements.
Therefore, taking care of yourself is more beneficial to your baby.